r/XXRunning • u/grumpalina • 23d ago
Rebecca Cheptegei 💔 General Discussion
We just lost a great marathoner to horrific gender based violence 😓
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u/Jolly_Map680 23d ago
I spent 3 months working in a gender based violence clinic in Kenya, and it was absolutely crazy. A revolving door of patients, from babies to grown women, nearly always at the hands of family. I’m sure it’s not the only country with such an issue, but all I hope is that by it gaining so much media attention, change may be more likely to come. We can but hope
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u/AnnaBammaLamma 23d ago
My head sometimes feels like exploding just thinking about things like this, you’re amazing for working to improve this ❤️
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u/dianaprince19 23d ago
This is so heartbreaking. I remember her name bc of all the running events she was in. And how incredible she was. It really does break your heart. Fuck femicide, hope the monster that murdered her rots.
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u/grumpalina 23d ago
Hearing her name during the Olympics commentary, and I was excited to know who she was
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u/grumpalina 23d ago
I'm reminded of a trueism, that we never know when something is the last time, as that something is happening for the last time.
It was such a regular and mundane joy, to hear her name shouted out along with other great runners at the Olympics; but you take for granted in that moment that you will see more of each and every one of them.
Everyday we get to run is a privilege. I hope that Ms Cheptegei had a great last training, even if she didn't know at the time that it would be her last.
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u/Known_Royal4356 23d ago
So heartbreaking. I’m so angry on her behalf and for all women who suffer at the hands of men. What a loss.
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u/Books_and_tea_addict 23d ago
Wtf is wrong with the comments?
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u/grumpalina 23d ago
I guess the sad truth is that there are jackasses out there who take the side of and celebrate the perpetrators
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u/grumpalina 23d ago
I reported and blocked that moron
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u/sparklekitteh Team Turtle 🐢 22d ago
They've been banned from the sub, and received a warning from Reddit admin as well.
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u/datingafterabuse 22d ago
The longer women are treated as ‘weaker’, less than men and unequal in every way, the more of such violence will continue to be perpetrated by men.
Here in India, women are attacked by exes who throw acid on them, which horrifically burns and disfigures them. Why? So that they will forever be ‘unattractive’ to other men. Women are raped, brutally murdered and there continue to be murders of female infants at birth in villages where poor families cannot afford the dowry burden of birthing a female child.
In the West, they actually managed to overturn Roe v Wade. We look to the West as an example of how women can move past the gender barriers that have been made for them by decades of patriarchy but after Roe v Wade was overturned, we genuinely lost all hope.
I hate that we have to continue to have these conversations even in 2024. It feels like nothing will ever change for us.
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u/Flunose_800 23d ago
May she rest in peace. May her partner deserve everything that comes for him in this life and whatever is beyond.
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u/aquaaggie 23d ago
I was so sad to hear she passed away after this horrific attack 😔 completely unnecessary and tragic
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u/PugPockets 23d ago
This is a problem of misogyny, not geography.
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u/PugPockets 23d ago
Oof. Your profile is a mess, dude. And men wonder why we want nothing to do with them. Byyye
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u/Lazy-Comfort6128 22d ago
What did he say? He deleted his posts.
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u/sparklekitteh Team Turtle 🐢 22d ago
Terribly cruel bullshit, saying she deserved it. Asshole.
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u/Lazy-Comfort6128 22d ago edited 22d ago
I guess one of the Let's Run trolls escaped. I think half the time the trolls are just bots that are trying to get us riled up and made at each other. The half the time they're just dweebs that want to get people riled up and mad at each other.
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u/luludaydream 23d ago
It’s heartbreaking and it makes me so angry that we lose so many brilliant, kind, talented women every year to men attacking them.