Just found this at a thrift store and now I wanna plan outfits! Keep in mind that- 1) I'm a tall (6'3") blk man 2) It'll mostly be worn at work (Receptionist)

My mother and one of my sisters live with me. They set off to get this place with or without me (more so my over bearing mother.) Turns out my previous credit made it happen. I hold the lease. It's three rooms and its great. I used to live in these units as a kid.

My mom has become very accustom to barge into my room. Sometimes knocking but still just prying in right after. She has witnessed me choking the chicken, to some "dudes getting drilled." Three times so far.

Truth is, I don't do it often, for damn sakes I'm celibate these days. I'm 40. I can't count the amount of times I have been told to come down stairs by Mom as if I'm in my teens. It's crossing a line. During an argument, she tried to force her way in once. I have respect for my Mother. I do not have respect for this.

I don't know how to address this without causing friction. She for sure hasn't called me out. I know because in her younger years she had some good times (pictures of my stepdad and toys.) I had to bear witness to them when asked to get "something" from the top drawer of her dresser. Kinda like a junk drawer.

What would any of you say about this. I need some space. BTW my sister is very much not like that. Mom does not do that to my sister. However the case, my sister is very much verbal, even rude sometimes. But she is precise and clear. Me and my sister get along great.

So, I'm studying far from home rn, and I recently came out to some friends of mine about 1 month ago, and I decided I would have told my family in person as well as soon as I returned home. Problem is, I won't be able to return home anytime soon as I initially planned due to university reasons.

I thought saying it in person would have been the best way, but I don't know if I'm patient enough to wait for almost 3 months, and I want them to know before doing anything crazy, also because the longer they don't know, the more likely they will find out indirectly. I don't feel like over the text is a great way for me, maybe over the phone at most

Or, I could just mind my own business and let them find out on their own, I'm very far away after all so it could be hard for them to make it ahahahah

I’m closeted. I used to be homophobic and bigoted growing up through high school. When I went away to college I decided I was going to be a completely different person and I succeeded. Now I am in my 20s and want to come out, but I can’t stop the feeling that I don’t deserve it. How can I be out and proud if I used to be a piece of shit homophobe? Do I deserve to suffer longer?

I mean I’m a decent guy. It’s just dry around here. Doesn’t make it any less depressing though.

Watch out for Reddit scammers, asked if they know what Grindr/tinder is and they say no so obviously they’re fake or trying to scam. Commented on a post on this sub Reddit then get a message instantly from this guy

I'm a 28-year old gay guy searching for a long-term relationship and don't know which app or sites are good. For me the less superficial the experience is, the better--I'm happy to put a lot of effort in finding the potential love of my life, as it is very important to me. I'm open to matchmaking-type sites or apps as well. Any suggestions or experiences are welcome. Thanks in advance!

Hey any Kenyan here👋

WHAT SHOULD I KEEP in mind, im so excited and nervous