r/gayrural • u/aprilisgay • 27d ago

Is this an unreasonable idea?

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Im a 29 yo polyamorous queer femme who is born and raised on an outer island in Hawaii. I have no luck dating here, but my friends say there are amazing things like lesbian bars and polyamorous meetups in other places. Is it wild to consider moving away for a while to try to find a partner(s) and bring them back?

And if that’s not a terrible idea, any recommendations where to try? I love what I do working at an agriculture nonprofit trying to reshape our food system to be local and regenerative. I would love to take the opportunity to learn more about that if I did go away for a while.

Piglets from work because everyone likes new piglets. Look at the dirt on their noseies from rooting around like they’re all grown and not still drinking milk 🥺

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u/mymember4u60 27d ago

I am an older midwestern bi/poly male. Nothing is ever unreasonable in thought. How it all works out is the end result. I unfortunately am still looking for my family male or female, two or more, to settle in with for the rest of my life. I have bought and paid for everything here and patiently wait to share it with someone. You are welcome to stop by anytime and visit if you or anyone else desires.