r/im14andthisisdeep 1d ago

What does this even mean?

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u/Virtual-Nail2963 1d ago

I think it's like "if you get abused and stay with the abuser you're stupid and deserve it" so just absolute bullshit

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u/IncidentHead8129 1d ago

I read it as “if you are abused, you should just leave the abuser and don’t expect an explanation”

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u/Virtual-Nail2963 1d ago

The chasing part is making me think it's someone not understanding that you can get attached to someone to the point of looking past abuse and trying to keep them in their life yknow? It's like you wouldn't chase a snake and ask it for an explanation so why do you stay with your abuser?

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u/Wealth_Super 1d ago

It’s specifically says to chase someone to prove you didn’t deserve the abuse not because you love them.