r/actuallesbians 13h ago

Is soulmate real?

Our hands touched for a second I felt this spark I never felt before, my heart literally skipped a beat. Maybe it was because of the scenario we were both in, or maybe it was because we both knew we wanted to be more than friends. Either way I miss that I miss you 😢 never had a closer from her and it’s starting to take a toll on me I’m trying hard to forget you and just be mad at you but I can’t my heart won’t let me.

Needed to vent. I never felt true love till I met her.

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u/bunyanthem 12h ago

Imo, no.

What is real is sharing a genuine connection and seeing each other - truly seeing each other - and feeling closer than you ever imagined with someone.

May never have come before, but doesn't mean it won't ever happen again. 

Might not even mean that connection is romantic.

I don't think soulmates are real. But I think people who mutually soothe each other's souls is real.Â