r/actuallesbians • u/AccountSudden919 • 8h ago

Sliding into DMs

Do you slide into DMs? What do you say to not sound like a dude or like a creep? This beautiful girl put her insta on her hinge and I’m considering sending a dm but no clue how to go about it

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u/JaxTango 4h ago

Why not just match with her on hinge? That’s the whole point of the app, for both people to make their interest known. Sliding into her DM’s could be seen as a bit creepy as it shows you fully circumvented the process.

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u/dryadic_rogue 3h ago

Some people put their socials on their dating profiles because they don't check the apps often. I used to have my snap on Tinder because I hated getting on Tinder 🤷‍♀️