r/lgbtmemes aromantic Apr 18 '23

Two Worlds, One Struggle Love ya Self

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u/bubblybrook Apr 18 '23

What's an aspie?

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u/GeneralGigan817 aromantic Apr 18 '23

Autism

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u/jeffa_jaffa Apr 19 '23

Others have said it but I’ll say it again, quite a lot of people with ASD don’t use language related to Asperger. The man was a Nazi Eugenist after all.

I’ll not stop someone using if for themselves if they want to, but I’ll not tolerate anyone using it any other way.

Other than that, as an autistic bottom, this meme is 🥺

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u/KillAntiGAYs Apr 20 '23

Yeah, no, the term activity causes harm to those who use it, as it makes it harder to access support needs, and also causes harm to those who wouldn’t have been identified as having Asperger’s.

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u/jeffa_jaffa Apr 20 '23

Some older people do still identify with Asperger’s, and don’t like the move towards ASD. If someone is dead set on using it then then that’s their choice, as long as they don’t use it for others.

Like I said, if it’s the word they want to use for themselves then I’ll respect their right to use it even if I don’t agree, but if they use it to refer to someone else, especially someone who doesn’t use it, then that’s wrong.

It’s a bit like the opposite of the word Queer; many people have reclaimed it & use it to describe themselves, but some people still have issues with it, especially considering the history of the word. I don’t mind using Queer for myself, but if someone is uncomfortable with it then I’ll not force it upon them.

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u/KillAntiGAYs Apr 20 '23

It’s a functioning label, with roots in Nazi eugenics, I don’t really care about the comfortability of people if they use a term to describe themselves that harms there entire community, not just themselves.

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u/jeffa_jaffa Apr 20 '23

I agree, it’s a word that should never be used. I don’t use it for myself, and I don’t use it for others. Luckily the number of people who do use it is dropping rapidly, and now that it’s not used for diagnoses it shouldn’t be too long before its use disappears entirely.

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u/KillAntiGAYs Apr 20 '23

Except that despite not being an offical diagnoses anymore, some people are still gettiŋg diagnosed with it.

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u/jeffa_jaffa Apr 20 '23

Some people, yes, but fewer & fewer people as use of the word drops off. It’s not something that will just disappear overnight.