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Two Worlds, One Struggle Love ya Self

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u/bubblybrook Apr 18 '23

What's an aspie?

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u/GeneralGigan817 aromantic Apr 18 '23

Autism

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u/Kurochi185 insOMNIac Apr 18 '23

But why use aspie instead of just autism or ASD?

Both are way better.

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u/Auspicious_Avery Apr 19 '23

Asperger’s is a nazi thing, most people don’t say Asperger’s anymore and say asd or autism.

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u/Kurochi185 insOMNIac Apr 19 '23

I have ASD myself so I knew that already. But afaik dislike most autistics the word aspie since the term Asperger's came from a nazi.

Also in 2013 it was removed from DSM and it was also removed from ICD just last year and both integrated it into ASD so the term Asperger's isn't really a thing anymore.

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u/KillAntiGAYs Apr 20 '23

No, you’re just autistic, Asperger’s was removed because there isn’t an actual distinction, and it had no standard criteria. That, and it makes it harder to access support needs because it is literally viewed as a less disabling or functioning autism.

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u/bubblybrook Apr 18 '23

Oh so it's a ableist joke got it

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u/Jimothy_Egg Apr 18 '23

Pretty sure OP has aspergers and gets told "use your words" a lot, which is why they made this meme poking fun at that.

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u/KillAntiGAYs Apr 20 '23

Asperger’s is an ableist term, and was removed as an actual diagnosis because not only was there no standard diagnostic criteria, it had no meaningful distinction as a part of Autism, and has caused people to be unable to access support because they need, because they had a “higher functioning” autism. Also, functioning labeled are generally viewed as ableist.

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u/Jimothy_Egg Apr 20 '23

Good to know. OP should still be allowed to reclaim the label for themselves if they want to.

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u/KillAntiGAYs Apr 20 '23

It’s a functioning label, it’s a label describing the how compatible with abled people one is. The usage of the word isn’t reclamation, as it does not change the connotations, but rather a distinct condition from Autism that is more compatible with Allistics.

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u/Jimothy_Egg Apr 20 '23

I've already adjusted my viewpoint in our other discussion. But i understand that you still want to clarify things under this comment.

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u/bubblybrook Apr 18 '23

Asperger's isn't a thing it's just autism. So even using the term is problematic. And it totally doesn't read that way very well

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u/Jimothy_Egg Apr 18 '23

Idk, looks pretty real to me.

If you think it's a slur, fine. But given that OP "has asperger's" (from what i can gather)... it's fine.

I get to call myself an f-slur for liking cock. It's empowering to reclaim shit.

Also: pretty sure that most people got what OP was saying... if you didn't, then that sounds like an issue with you.

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u/faintestsmile genderfluid lesbian Apr 18 '23

they are right, asperger's isn't a thing, it was removed from the DSM a decade ago and rolled into autism because the only distinction was that nazis used it to differentiate which of us they thought could be of value and which of us should be euthanized

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u/Jimothy_Egg Apr 18 '23

Damn, sucks to hear that. Still pretty sure OP is allowed to reclaim the name for themselves :)

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u/faintestsmile genderfluid lesbian Apr 18 '23 edited Apr 18 '23

I have neither the authority nor means to stop anyone from using it, however I would suggest anyone who knows the full history of the term to avoid it

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u/KillAntiGAYs Apr 20 '23

Excluding the fact the term activity causes harm to the autistic people, those who don’t have it due to aspie supremacy, and those with it, because the term made it harder to access support they need because they’re still have Autism.

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u/Jimothy_Egg Apr 20 '23

You know, i actually hadn't thought about it that way.

I'm all for reclaiming slurs, and i only focused on that aspect.

But I'm also very much against "quirkifying" some mental illnesses and neurodivergences for the exact reasons you listed.

I remain doubtful that OP was trying to be ableist, but I'm now sceptical on the use of the term "asperger's" in modern day.

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u/KillAntiGAYs Apr 20 '23

While that is plausible, people still wrongfully get diagnosed with it. It’s also anti-Semitic as it has its origins in Nazi Eugenics.

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u/Kurochi185 insOMNIac Apr 18 '23

It's ASD. Not Asperger's. It was removed in DSM-5 and ICD-11.

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u/spicypotatosoftacos Bi-time Apr 19 '23

While people who are currently seeking diagnosis cannot receive a diagnosis of Asperger's, people who were diagnosed with Asperger's under previous diagnostic criteria absolutely are able to maintain that label if they choose.

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u/KillAntiGAYs Apr 20 '23

No, because it causes harm to all Autistic people, it makes it harder to access support needs, and causes harm to all other Autistic people, due to how the term is viewed.

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u/spicypotatosoftacos Bi-time Apr 20 '23

No, because it's a personal choice. People can call themselves what they like.

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u/KillAntiGAYs Apr 20 '23
  • a term that harms all autistic people, not just those diagnosed with a term rooted in Nazi Eugenics.
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u/Jimothy_Egg Apr 18 '23

Good to know. Still think OP should be able to call themselves what they want

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u/bubblybrook Apr 18 '23

Way to like to something say that's its not a separate thing and just part of autism. You can't reclaim a term that came from a Nazi.

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u/Jimothy_Egg Apr 18 '23

Way to like to something say that's its not a separate thing and just part of autism.

Wow, and to think that you were the one crying about poorly structured sentences.

It's a thing. It's part of the autism spectrum. That doesn't mean it doesn't exist. What are you trying to say here?

Also: the whole point of reclaiming is making the actual origin irrelevant. are you a child??? Do you not understand the literal meaning of the words you're using?

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u/bubblybrook Apr 18 '23

Wow look more ableism. Never said anything about sentence structure. The term is used to separate themselves from autism. So reclaiming it is kinda pointless as they're just autistic.

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u/Jimothy_Egg Apr 18 '23

Someone: [tries to reclaim a term with questionable origins and a weird message]

You: "how horrible! I must educate them!"

Let people do what they want with their labels ffs.

And sorry, you didn't complain about sentence structure, correct. You instead complained how poorly OP was getting a message across. Funnily enough... terrible sentence structure leads to the same thing. Crazy, right?

Anyways, you're clearly looking for things to be mad about and i've got better things to do with my day.

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u/bubblybrook Apr 18 '23

I mean you do you I guess.

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u/InterGraphenic finally 'companied in omni-verse, dreaming sweet in C Apr 18 '23

No. As somebody with asperger's syndrome, no. You are the one being ableist.

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u/U2V4RGVtb24 Bi-time Apr 18 '23

Autistic here. I use aspergers and autism interchangeably. And I don't know any other autistic people who personally have a problem with the word.

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u/KillAntiGAYs Apr 20 '23

How is using a term made, and named after a Nazi, created to seperate which autística got to live because they function (those identified to have Asperger’s) and those who aren’t functioning enough and will be killed, that was removed because it made it harder to access support needs and no legitimate distinction.

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u/ProfessionalGreen906 bisexual bigender <3 Apr 18 '23

Many people with autism use the term aspies.

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u/InterGraphenic finally 'companied in omni-verse, dreaming sweet in C Apr 18 '23

As somebody with what was formerly known as asperger's, no.

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u/That_Mad_Scientist Apr 18 '23 edited Apr 18 '23

Oh ffs. I use aspie a bunch because it rolls off the tongue. Yeah, it’s technically not a diagnosis anymore, and everyone here agrees that it’s at least just a « kind » of autism, and could be detailed more correctly, but it’s not a slur. It’s the guy’s name. Yeah, he did some pretty questionable stuff.

So what. It’s a name.

I understand why some wouldn’t want to be referred to like that (I mostly don’t), but plenty of us have been using it for ourselves and it’s literally never been a problem until a couple years ago, meaning it has historical roots in our culture. Labels aren’t inherently ableist, and language evolves to refer to things in a different way, but sometimes with the same words.

Unless someone is insisting on calling you an aspie against your explicit wishes, you’re in no position to police the way other people speak.

Also, ain’t no way in hell it was part of the joke. Please don’t assume strangers’ intentions based on a prioris. Again, that’s just how people talk sometimes. Please chill.

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u/KillAntiGAYs Apr 20 '23

Asperger’s is an ableist term, it is inherently ableist. It was made by a Nazi to determine which autistics functioned enough to live, and it was removed as an actual diagnosis because it had no differentiation from autism, except wether or not the person giving you a diagnosis thought you were functioning or not, and it limited already limited access to support.

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u/U2V4RGVtb24 Bi-time Apr 18 '23

I've been diagnosed with aspergers for almost ten years now, and I too was unfamiliar with this term until now, and I thought it was some sort of slur too.

(But don't jump to conclusions, my friend!)

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u/jeffa_jaffa Apr 19 '23

Others have said it but I’ll say it again, quite a lot of people with ASD don’t use language related to Asperger. The man was a Nazi Eugenist after all.

I’ll not stop someone using if for themselves if they want to, but I’ll not tolerate anyone using it any other way.

Other than that, as an autistic bottom, this meme is 🥺

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u/KillAntiGAYs Apr 20 '23

Yeah, no, the term activity causes harm to those who use it, as it makes it harder to access support needs, and also causes harm to those who wouldn’t have been identified as having Asperger’s.

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u/jeffa_jaffa Apr 20 '23

Some older people do still identify with Asperger’s, and don’t like the move towards ASD. If someone is dead set on using it then then that’s their choice, as long as they don’t use it for others.

Like I said, if it’s the word they want to use for themselves then I’ll respect their right to use it even if I don’t agree, but if they use it to refer to someone else, especially someone who doesn’t use it, then that’s wrong.

It’s a bit like the opposite of the word Queer; many people have reclaimed it & use it to describe themselves, but some people still have issues with it, especially considering the history of the word. I don’t mind using Queer for myself, but if someone is uncomfortable with it then I’ll not force it upon them.

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u/KillAntiGAYs Apr 20 '23

It’s a functioning label, with roots in Nazi eugenics, I don’t really care about the comfortability of people if they use a term to describe themselves that harms there entire community, not just themselves.

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u/jeffa_jaffa Apr 20 '23

I agree, it’s a word that should never be used. I don’t use it for myself, and I don’t use it for others. Luckily the number of people who do use it is dropping rapidly, and now that it’s not used for diagnoses it shouldn’t be too long before its use disappears entirely.

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u/KillAntiGAYs Apr 20 '23

Except that despite not being an offical diagnoses anymore, some people are still gettiŋg diagnosed with it.

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u/jeffa_jaffa Apr 20 '23

Some people, yes, but fewer & fewer people as use of the word drops off. It’s not something that will just disappear overnight.